Pashmina Lalchandani (pashmina) wrote,
Pashmina Lalchandani

thinking outside the box

If you were to ask others what it is about me that makes them comfortable, they will tell you it is because I don't judge anyone. Of couse I have opinions about people - I am a critic, but I don't see my opinions as an end point (which would be judging), I see them as a tool. I may be adaptable and open to lots of things, but many mistake this to imply that I can't get offended or that I can't disagree with what someone is doing. How does that happen? Have I somehow portrayed myself as a person living completely outside the box? Some insist on a fixed structure; they like to live within the boundaries of the box and while others don't have any structure, I don't really see myself as either type. Perhaps this explains the moments of oddity in my experiences with both groups. I guess I see myself in an open structure; I would build my box with hinged walls. Is there anything wrong with that?
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